The Way of Mastery:
Fulfilling Your Purpose and Mission Jo Anna Shaw, MBA
“I know
there is something more for me to do with my life, but I am not sure what it
is.” I hear this frequently from career professionals seeking deeper meaning in
their work, from parents, from people getting ready to retire, from students
contemplating their future, from many who are experiencing chaos in their life.
This
reflection arises from an incongruity between the conditioning to seek
happiness and joy through achievement and material acquisitions and the deep
intention to fulfill our unique purpose and mission. If we ignore the calling
of the inner chaos, stronger and stronger messages will come from our body or
life experiences inviting us back to the calling of our heart. At these times
we may ask ourselves, “Who am I?” “Why
am I here?” “How am I to serve?”
I was
asking these questions the last few years of my corporate career. I was
married, owned my home in a beautiful suburb of Western Washington and had an achieved a high level
banking position. However, I was not truly happy or healthy. Then my position
was eliminated and I had the opportunity to start over. For the first time in
my life, I followed my heart and took the chance to discover a more meaningful
livelihood. I chose to be an entrepreneur in a healing field 180 degrees from
my corporate career. I felt like I had jumped off a cliff to learn to fly. This
took me on an incredible inner journey through which I came to learn what true
happiness is. I reconnected with my purpose and mission. And now I am living
it. I am so grateful!
I imagine
a time before I was born when I met with my guides and angels, in a sacred
circle. With their guidance I created
the intention to fulfill my unique destiny in terms of my evolution in
consciousness and path of service. I made a commitment to remember this
intention, knowing the challenges that would invite me to forget. Yet, I forgot
for a long time, conditioned with abuse, limiting thoughts and beliefs of my
parents, teachers and society. I know now that I have always been on the path
to wholeness. I had simply been on a detour exploring the life and beliefs I
learned from others. The detour taught me a lot that would enable me to
empathize with others and to feel compassion for those I would serve.
My path
is three-fold: to remember and live my calling; to trust (Life, God, The
Universe); to be grounded and centered in my Essence in each moment. I call my
path The Way of Mastery because I use
most of my life experiences to master these intentions. I have explored many
paths of spirituality and healing so I can be this in my life. I was led to a
missing link when I let go of my corporate career. I achieved the most profound
results as I learned the repatterning techniques in
my new field.
The
ability to release early life conditioning, which is held in the physical body
in the form of reflexes, was key for me. I knew I
would manifest from my deeper beliefs and conditioning starting anew. My
intention was to awaken wholeness by releasing my conditioning. Like pealing wallpaper off the wall, I set
upon a journey of releasing layers of physical and emotional conditioning using
integrative and developmental movements in the context of the intention to
unleash my pure potential. At the same time I would re-educate or anchor new
patterns of behavior and beliefs by practicing a lifestyle of balance and
wholeness.
I became
familiar with the energy of attraction that brought me opportunities to evolve.
This awareness developed in me compassion for my journey and a gentle yet
effective process for systematically reconfiguring my mind/body/emotion system
to access wholeness rather than conditioning as my motivating power. The
process I used, which I will share here, is practical and powerful.
Mastery
The Way of Mastery is about walking the path
of a
Master. Lord Jesus is one who modeled the ability to follow destiny, to love
unconditionally, to manifest from Essence and to be the Light wherever his work
would take Him. He said (and I paraphrase) what He did we also would do. I
believe this to the core of my being. I have been exploring how to live this
consciousness in all areas of my life for many years. This has led me to
rebirth many of my forgotten gifts and abilities and to manifest a
heart-centered path of service with families, teachers, healers and business
people.
Mastery
is following our deep inner knowing without hesitation with intent to bring to
fruition the fullness of the purpose and mission for which you first drew breath. As we do we align with an energy
of attraction that brings all the people and resources to support us in this
journey. This is a profound spiritual and scientific principle.
This
principle of attraction is active in each moment for everyone and everything.
Scientists are documenting the energy of attraction inviting us to become more
conscious of the magnificent and complex nature of the Universe. With awareness
of the dynamics of life that take us on detours or awaken us to a higher purpose
for living, we can apply these principles to create the happiness and joy we
seek. When we recognize that we are attracting from our unconscious beliefs and
conditioning and then choose to become conscious, we are walking the path of a
Master.
The Way of Conditioning
If we
were raised in an environment that supported our innate desire to learn and
explore life, we are more likely to create a successful and happy life.
However, if we have been conditioned to find success and happiness outside of
ourselves they will be elusive. When life is chaotic rather than flowing there
comes a point where we question what we have learned. This is an opportunity to
remember and actuate our purpose and mission.
The
belief I learned early on was that I am not safe to express my feelings, ideas
or creativity. I learned to hold back, question myself, and to comply. Later in
life I would experience the same physiological response I did as a child when
my heart invited me to remember my path. I would hold my breath, grit my teeth
and question until I was frozen in my ability to move forward. I was stuck in
my intellect trying to figure my way while my body’s pain was reflecting the
unheard calling of my heart to let go and move on. Whether it was a job or a
relationship I could not decide in my best interest.
To be
successful in my new work, it was important for me to be effective at public
speaking and writing. The challenge was that speaking in front of a group would
elicit a pounding heart, held breath, closed throat, sweaty palms and shaky
hands. When I would pick up a pen to write a new idea I would immediately
forget what had come to me. I could not fully take the benefits of all the
spiritual practices and healing I did and affect those reflexes that were
activated by my desire to be in my power in the world.
Every
belief or way of being was conditioned in our first seven years of life. It was
practiced the next seven years and again the next seven. Thereafter we attempt
to sort out the beliefs and to live from our own truth. As we do we are given
many opportunities to release this conditioning and to re-educate our system to
express our unique Essence.
The Way of Mastery is to choose to become
conscious of this, to remember who we are and why we are here. Then, we can
raise our children differently than we were so they pass on to their children
the ability to live from their inner power and to fulfill their unique destiny.
Moving Beyond
Conditioning: The Integrative Movement Solution
I have
identified six steps that represent the process and techniques I used to
facilitate my evolution. In this process you will increase your vibration from
the density of conditioning to the light of wholeness. The infinite organizing
power of the Universe will reorganize your life in alignment with your Essence.
Step 1 – Awareness
Awareness
is the first step to manifesting from your Essence. In the awareness that you
are co-creator of what you attract and the consciousness of non-judgment exists
the ability to rise above the conditioned energy of attraction into the ability
to attract from wholeness. Meditation, being in
nature, meditative movement programs like yoga or Qi
Gong will help to learn this state of consciousness.
Notice
the events and people you attract and your thoughts, feelings, senses and
actions in response. The mirror these present will give you clues as to your
deeper beliefs. If you respond from other than your inner power, your spiritual
Essence, this is your opportunity to re-educate your system.
Celebrate
awareness rather than judging your circumstances. Without awareness you cannot
change. Be a pure observer with a beginner’s mind, a student of your life
looking for the insights that will guide you to your purpose and mission.
Step 2 – Intention
When you
are aware that you have attracted an incident that elicits an old conditioned
reaction, you can choose to reconfigure your response to the person or
situation through intention and movement. As soon as you can, create a safe and
quiet space to work with the belief or behavior.
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Begin
by drinking water to support the energetic, chemical and neurological changes
you intend.
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Center
yourself through breathing, doing a cross lateral movement like walking in
place and touching the opposite knee with your arm and then sitting in
meditation or prayer for a moment. Invite the highest of healing energies to
assist you.
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Create
the intention that you would like to manifest the next time this incident
arises. For example to be loving, at peace,
compassionate, tolerant, to take action, to manifest, to remember, to be
successful, to be confident etc.
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Then
follow step 3.
Step 3 – Explore the
Edge
1.) Think about or role-play the
situation. Do your best to re-access the same thoughts, feelings, senses and
actions you originally experienced. It only takes a moment or so, just enough
time to stick your big toe into it so to speak.
The idea
is to bring up the neurological, physiological and emotional pattern you were
in at the time. You may notice that you hold your breath, lock your knees and
feel scared. Or, that you get tense in the shoulders, feel angry and have a
hard time expressing yourself. The more you can re-experience the emotional and
physiological sensations, the greater the potential of clearing these reflexes.
2.)
Then activate the energy flow in the brain/body system by moving several times
in each direction as follows. Stand up with feet shoulder width apart and move
your body side to side. Rise to the ball of your foot and reach to touch the
ceiling. Then bend your knees with feet flat to touch the floor. Stand and rock
forward and back from the ball to the heel of your foot. Notice how recalling
the challenge and moving this way affects your emotions and physiology.
To
explore this edge helps you learn to notice the pattern that you desire to
release. This kinesthetic awareness in the context of the intention to create a
new way of being sets up the energy to move beyond this pattern by doing step
4.
Step 4 – Reconfigure
your System
There are
many integrative, developmental movements and other activities to reorganize
the system. Here are just a few. Notice if you get thirsty and keep drinking
water as you do these activities. Water helps create the proteins that make up
neural pathways in the brain and heart and facilitates the movement of energy
across synapses and along the meridians. Water and movement also helps cycle
the fluids that carry the molecules of the emotions to be released. Remember to
breathe fully through your nose as you move.
Re-educating
the neurology and physiology through integrative movements –
a.) Walk in place touching your arm to
the opposite knee at the same time you look in the upper visual field with eyes
only. Keep this movement going and head still as you look in the lower visual
field, then to each of the side visual fields. Be present with your movements.
Slow movement is best. Continue with the cross-lateral movement looking in
circles, figure-eights, horizontally and vertically. Use deep and relaxed
breathing as you do. You can also do this crawling or lying down on your back
if you choose.
b.) Stand with arms out to the side,
like airplane wings, with feet shoulder width apart. Spin up to 33 times each
direction starting left, then right, finishing with 3 turns left to balance. Or,
lay on the floor and roll over several times in each
direction. Again, remember to breathe as you move.
c.)
Sit
down in a chair or on the floor with your legs straight, yet slightly bent in
front of you, and cross your ankles. Reach your arms above your head, open your
chest and breathe deeply. Then lengthen over your legs and allow your body to
relax as you breathe into your hips for a count of eight. Cross your ankles the
other way and do this again. Repeat as many times as you choose.
d.) Put your hands out to the side and
imagine all parts of yourself -- physical, mental, emotional and spiritual --
coming together as one, whole, integrated unit as you bring your hands
together. Be with this last step for as long as you want, focused upon your
breathing.
e.) Drink water and allow these
movements to integrate for about 10 minutes. Continue to sit in prayer or
meditation or take a walk in nature. Then go to step 5.
Step 5 – Beyond the Edge
Return to
the activities you did in Step 3 and do them again noticing the changes. Move
the body side to side, up and down and forward and back as before. Revisit the
challenge in thought or role-play. Become aware of the new more holistic
thoughts, feelings, senses and movements. Acknowledge even the smallest of
changes to anchor the remembrance of them.
Step 6 - Integration
This new
state is neurologically wired and will become permanent. To myelinate
the neurological pathways focus on your intention in the quiet of the morning
and evening for a couple of weeks and do the activities in step 4. Then let go
of this process and trust.
If the
old conditioning persists I invite you to seek out practitioners in the field
of Educational Kinesiology and ask to learn the Dennison’s Laterality Repatterning and Three Dimensional Repatterning
processes. They will also help you identify other specific activities unique to
your mind/body system that you can use in step 4.
A New Paradigm
In this
six-step process, the brain and whole mind/body system re-organizes itself
around your intention. The brain is neuro-muscularly
and neuro-vascularly connected to the whole body. As
you move the body you rewire the brain and change the mind/body system. You
alter your emotional and behavioral responses to life as a result. The brain is
constantly evolving, developing new neural pathways every time you learn
something new. It has been proven that you can open or grow a neural pathway in
as little as seven seconds. Age is not an issue when it comes to reconfiguring
the mind/body system. Conditioned patterns can be changed with relative ease, a
new paradigm, by comparison to more mental or allopathic approaches.
The new
wisdom finds that there are neurons and neural pathways in the heart. By virtue
of its connection to the limbic system, which regulates the chemical balance of
the body, when the heart’s electromagnetic field comes in contact with a
stimulus, chemicals are released in response. If the stimulus is fearful, the
body reflexes into fight or flight. If the heart senses love and nurturing, the
body relaxes and breathes deeply and secretes chemicals creating a sense of
peace.
The
sub-conscious does not distinguish the past from the present. A reflexive
response to challenges can result from a misperception of events and you can
find yourself in reflexes of the past unable to control your physical or
emotional reaction in the present. Movement in the context of desire,
motivation and intention is the key to releasing the conditioned reflexes. By
using this six-step process, the sub-conscious releases the old pattern and
accesses the new.
Fulfilling your Purpose
and Mission
I
discovered my purpose and mission by utilizing these six steps with the
intention to experience wholeness in any situation that would challenge me. I
define wholeness as being healthy physically, mentally, emotionally and
spiritually, as a state of being modeled by many great Masters. For step two I
would work with even the most task specific activities that would trigger me,
such as writing, reading, speaking to groups or having confidence. Knowing the
conditioning that led me to struggle with these activities I knew as I moved
through these blocks I would attune to my purpose. From wholeness I attract
success in the work I love. Life changes can be dramatic like mine or they can
be as gentle and subtle as creating new meaning with renewed passion and love
for your current vocation and relationships.
Life is
like a spiral. For as I reach what I think is “it” in my purpose and mission I
find I am at the beginning of an expanded exploration of my potential beyond
what my intellect could originally conceive. We truly keep evolving as long as
we are here. I choose to participate consciously in this journey for it is far
more joyful than to be at the affect of my life’s circumstances.
Freeing
ourselves of old conditioning allows our Pure Essence to come forth into the
fullness of our purpose and empowers us to live our unique mission. To empty
the conditioning is to become as the child: open, non-judgmental,
unconditionally loving, curious and playful in relationship to life.
On the Way of Mastery, take time each day to
listen deeply to the desires of your heart. Heart Essence is seeking to know
and feel itself as Love. Using integrative movements and activities with the
intention to live your purpose and mission in all situations aligns you with
the organizing field that attracts people of like mind and experiences that
will fulfill your desires. You will grow into a more powerful expression of
Love each time you do. May you manifest the purpose and mission that is
uniquely our own in a consciousness of compassion, peace, happiness and joy.
ã Jo
Anna Shaw 2001. All rights reserved. Reprinted by permission
of Jo Anna Shaw. This article first appeared in The Sentient Times, Ashland, OR, June/July
2001.
Jo Anna Shaw, MBA, is an international facilitator
of Inner Flight workshops. Jo Anna has created the Inner Flight Center in Jacksonville, OR where individuals, families and
other groups to explore Holographic Healing and Life Skills Masteryã. Jo Anna teaches Brain Gym®, Visioncircles™
and Brain Organization Profiles from the Educational Kinesiology
curriculum. She is also developer of The
Way of Mastery in Business, a course
for career and business people seeking deeper meaning through their work. Jo
Anna can be reached at innerflight@qwest.net,
or 541-899-4447, or 1-888-885-8558.
For
more information on Educational Kinesiology go to www.braingym.org or call 1-800-356-2109.