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Creative
Ways to Transform Challenges:
Tools for coping, finding meaning and realizing
positive growth, healing and change
Quick
Quote Pick-Me-Ups
"If
you don't live it, it won't come out of your horn." Charlie Parker,
American jazz musician
"The
victim who is able to articulate the situation of the victim has
ceased to be a victim; he or she has become a threat." James
Baldwin.
"Growth
is demanding and may seem dangerous, for there is loss as well as
gain in growth. But why go on living if one has ceased to grow."
May Sarton
"When
you get into a tight place and it seems you can't go on, hold on,
for that's just the place and the time that the tide will turn."
Harriet Beecher Stowe
"The
most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat,
known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their
way out of the depths. These persons have an appreciation, a sensitivity,
and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness,
and a deep loving concern. Beautiful people do not just happen."
Elizabeth Kubler Ross
"It
is more blissful that man be taken from pain than pain be taken
from man for if pain be taken from us, it may come again..." Julian
of Norwich
"Tragedies
serve as an express elevator to spirit." Dan Millman
"Healing
is a matter of time, but it is at times also a matter of opportunity."
Hippocrates
"People
wish to be settled: only as far as they are unsettled is there any
hope for them." Ralph Waldo Emerson
"Courage
is resistance to fear, mastery of fear-not absence of fear." Mark
Twain
"If
you want to see the brave, look at those who can forgive. If you
want to see the heroic, look at those who can love in return for
hatred." Bhagavad-Gita
"Hate
is not conquered by hate. Hatred is conquered by love. This is a
law eternal." Dammapada, Buddhist scripture
"What
would it be like if you lived each day, each breath, as a work of
art in progress? Imagine that you are a Masterpiece unfolding every
second of every day, a work of art taking form with every breath."
Thomas Crum
"When
old words die out on the tongue, new melodies break forth from the
heart; and where the old tracks are lost, new country is revealed
with its wonders." Rabindranath Tagore
"Most
people have to delve into the dark areas and go through them before
they reach a state of freedom, light and serenity." Cristina
Grof and Stanislav Grof, M.D.
"So,
whenever a doctor tells you that you have an incurable or fatal
disease, look him squarely in the eye and tell him--- ---! (whatever
is your favorite expletive). Then go out and find yourself another
doctor-one who believes in the body and not in the disease." Lawrence
Badgley, M.D.
"Throughout
history the human mind and the human spirit have overcome and endured
problems and situations that seemed insurmountable." Les Brown
"A
turning point is life's way of giving you a chance to move ahead
spiritually, though you must reach for the gift yourself." Harold
Klemp
In
Chinese, the character for crisis means both "peril" and "opportunity."
"Our
task is to say a holy yes to the real things of our life as they
exist." Natalie Goldberg
"Everything
in life that we really accept undergoes a change." Katherine
Mansfield
"The
only antidote to the irreversibility of history is the faculty of
forgiveness." Hannah Arendt
"It
is impossible for anything to be lost, for in the divine economy,
nothing can pass away. The little flower which bloomed once, blooms
forever." Neville
"There
are two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle.
The other is as though everything is a miracle." Albert Einstein
"We
all have angels guiding us....They look after us. They heal us,
touch us, comfort us with invisible warm hands....What will bring
their help? Asking. Giving thanks." Sophy Burnham
"We
are most deeply asleep at the switch when we fancy we control any
switches at all." Annie Dillard
"We
must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have
the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell
"In
my life's chain of events nothing was accidental. Everything happened
according to an inner need." Hannah Senesh
"Gratitude
unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have into enough,
and more. It turns denial into acceptance, chaos to order, confusion
to clarity. It can turn a meal into a feast, a house into a home,
a stranger into a friend. Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings
peace for today, and creates a vision for tomorrow." Melodie
Beattie
"Bless
a thing and it will bless you. Curse it and it will curse you...If
you bless a situation, it has no power to hurt you, and even it
if is troublesome for a time, it will gradually fade out, if you
sincerely bless it." Emmet Fox
"Your
joy is your sorrow unmasked. And the selfsame well from which your
laughter rises was oftentimes filled with your tears." Kahlil
Gibran, The Prophet
"When
one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so
long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been
opened for us." Helen Keller, Optimism
"You
cannot prevent the birds of sorrow from flying over your head, but
you can prevent them from building nests in your hair." Chinese
proverb
"There
are moments when, whatever be the attitude of the body, the soul
is on its knees." Victor Hugo
"We
shall draw from the heart of suffering, itself the means of inspiration
and survival." Winston S. Churchill
"I
guess that the giants in life are those who just keep growing on
the manure of every crisis and setback." Lynda Bloomberg
"Real
success comes when you learn to act as if everything depends on
you and pray as if everything depends on God." Oprah Winfrey
"We
know finite disappointment, but infinite hope." Martin Luther
King, Jr.
"The
choice today is no longer between violence and nonviolence. It's
either nonviolence or nonexistence." Dr. Martin Luther King,
Jr.
"My
life is my message." Mahatma Gandhi
"It's
not the strongest species that survive, not the most intelligent,
but the ones most responsive to change." Charles Darwin
"If
we could read the secret history of our enemies, we should find,
in each person's life, sorrow and suffering enough to disarm all
hostilities." Henry Wadsworth Longfellow
"Just
to be is a blessing. Just to live is holy." Abraham Joshua Heschel
"Interviewer:
If your house were on fire, which object would you take with you?"
Jean Cocteau: The fire!
"Always
forgive your enemies-nothing annoys them so much." Oscar Wilde
"To
love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance." Oscar Wilde
"He
who has a why to live can bear almost any now." Nietzsche
"The
only way to make sense out of change is to plunge into it, move
with it, and join the dance." Alan Watts
"True
love and prayer are learned in the hour when love becomes impossible
and the heart has turned to stone." Thomas Merton
"I
have come to appreciate how most of spiritual practice is learning
to be kinder to one another." Aldous Huxley
"
The biggest disease today is not leprosy or tuberculosis, but rather
the feeling of being unwanted, uncared for, and deserted by everybody."
Mother Teresa of Calcutta
"No
matter how lonely you are, the world offers you imagination." Mary
Oliver
"God
grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot, the courage
to change the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference."
The Serenity Prayer attributed to Reinhold Neibuhr
"Sometimes
our light goes out but is blown again into flames by an encounter
with another human being. Each of us owes the deepest thanks to
those who have rekindled this inner light." Albert Schweitzer
"Why
is it that people always need love and understanding the most at
a time when they probably deserve it the least? Lou Holtz
"Don't
throw anyone out of your heart." Neem Karoli Baba
"Inside
yourself or outside, you never have to change what you see, only
the way you see it." Thaddeus Golas
"Be
here now." Ram Dass
"The
sun be warm and kind to you. In the darkest night some star shine
through." Langston Hughes
"Deep
peace of the running river to you. Deep peace of the flowing air
to you. Deep peace of the shining stars to you. Deep peace of the
quiet earth to you." Gaelic blessing
"No
ray of sunshine is ever lost, but the green which it awakens into
existence needs time to sprout, and it is not always granted for
the sower to see the harvest. All work that is worth anything is
done in faith." Albert Schweitzer
"Never
doubt that a small group of thoughtful committed citizens can change
the world: Indeed it's the only thing that ever has." Margaret
Mead
"We
have
a long, long way to go. So let us hasten along the road, the road
of human tenderness and generosity. Groping, we may find one another's
hands in the dark." Emily Greene Balch, Nobel Peace Laureate
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