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Doorways of Support and Inspiration:
Forgiveness

What Forgiveness Includes  Beverly Flannigan
 
"Forgiveness is not the same as pardoning. Pardoning releases people from punishments due them and usually is the result of the act of a person in authority. Forgiveness has nothing to do with forgetting, either. A wounded person cannot-indeed, should not-think that a fading memory can provide an expiation of the past. To forgive, one must remember the past, put it into perspective, and move beyond it.
 
Without remembrance, no wound can be transcended."
 
 
From Forgiving the Unforgivable by Beverly Flannigan, Macmillan, New York, 1992.

 

 

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