Resilience: Lottie Fortune, A Story of Healing Arthritis Jerry Dahmen
Excerpted
from the book “I Love Life...In Spite of It
All” (Broadman and Holman Publishing)
*Includes Lottie Fortune's Modified
Arthritis Diet at the end.
When my interview with
Lottie Fortune first aired, the phone response was unbelievable. "Is there
any way you could tell us what this woman did to cure her arthritis?" was
the typical question. Lottie had been battling crippling disability and pain
nearly a decade ago--and now was enjoying life free of arthritis.
It was not surprising
her story had generated such a positive reaction. Over thirty-seven million
Americans suffer from one form of arthritis or another. That averages out to
one person in every three families. Many have lost hope and have given up on
life and themselves.
But Lottie was not
among them. She is a vibrant sixty-year old who plays tennis three times a
week, has earned a yellow belt in karate, and has led support groups on
arthritis.
Only eight years before
we met, Lottie couldn't bend over the sink to brush her teeth. Climbing in and
out of the car became a horrifying ordeal. Merely holding onto a wooden spoon
or rolling pin was painful, and a good night's sleep was non-existent. Lottie,
then living in Boston, had been diagnosed with osteoarthritis.
The doctors put it on
the line to her. "Lottie, there's nothing you can do about the disease.
You'll simply have to accept it."
"But," the
determined woman demanded, "there has to be
something I can do. I can't live my life in constant pain and not do anything
about it."
"There are ways to
handle the pain," they advised her. "We can prescribe medications
that will alleviate part of the hurt, but that's about it."
Lottie wouldn't face
the "facts." At first, she was in denial and thought to herself, “This couldn't be happening to me.
I was following all the good health rules, or thought I was. When the pain
became unbearable, I had to accept the reality of the diagnosis."
But Lottie was not allowing
anyone, including her physicians, to assume control of her life. Then and there
she made a pact with herself to become responsible for overcoming the arthritic
pain. Lottie first and foremost prayed: "Dear God, please help me find a
way to end this disease. I need Your guidance, Lord. I
want to live--not merely exist."
While she was praying
and hoping, Lottie tried to be, in her own words, a "good patient."
She did what the doctors asked her to do and would not complain. She was also
swallowing dozens of prescribed pills daily.
Starting with twelve
aspirin a day, she was popping all kinds of anti-inflammatory drugs into her
system like Indocin, Naifon,
cortisone, and more. Wrenching pain persisted, and not long afterward,
side-effects from the medications were spreading like oil slick on water.
"I was being
treated like a chronic, menopausal old woman," she angrily told me.
"And I felt older and worse by the day. My teeth felt like falling out,
and my stomach hurt all the time. My hands started to bleed from the
fingertips, and canker sores were burning like wildfire in my mouth.
Sleeping was
impossible. “I'd be up several times during the night, hoping for daylight.
Just lying down on the bed was painful. I'd get up cautiously, and I was very stiff.
The pain would course up my back and down my legs. The medication didn't help
me perform tasks that most people take for granted. Getting in and out of a car
was virtually impossible. I'd have to lift my leg up to get in. Sitting in the
back seat was impossible. I would rather have been put on top of the car and
strapped on."
Lottie, like the
majority of arthritis patients, had no idea about what else she could do. So
she made more trips to the specialists. Just maybe, she was fondly hoping,
they’ll have a new medication that will help me.
"Please,
Doctor," she would tell one after another, "there must be something I
can do. I have so many dreams and things I want to do, but now my life is so
painful. I want to rid myself of this disease."
The pleas were
invariably answered the same. "Lottie, you'll have to take your medicine
and cope with the disease the best you can. There aren't any 'miracle cures.'
You'd better accept what you have as your new way of life. Don't fight it.
You'll just be disappointed."
Lottie was tired of
being "a good patient." She was gradually, but surely, becoming
disenchanted with the medical advice she was receiving. Like millions of other
arthritics, she was willing to try anything. "I was hurting so much, even
a faint promise of a cure would have been enough to make me go for it,"
the dynamic woman recollects.
"I saw a
psychiatrist and was hypnotized. That didn't work. I was at the end of my rope,
and anything was worth a try, even copper bracelets and apricot pits. I knew some
people who had cancer tried the pits, and maybe they'd work for me."
Nothing did. She reached the point where she read everything she could about
the disease. For the most part, the material advised: see your doctor, take
your medication, rest, and exercise. She did--and was still miserable.
Lottie's condition was
rapidly deteriorating. The pain in her joints was torturous. Maybe, she
convinced herself after a doctor's suggestion, I'll need to have a hip fusion.
She checked that out with a rheumatologist and an orthopedic surgeon. "I
figured that was the last alternative left. I was scared and depressed and grew
tired of sitting in doctor's offices. I had to deal with the pain soon."
Before following
through with surgery, Lottie painfully drove to downtown Boston in search of another book store. Any book about
arthritis was an easy sale for the desperate woman. She had read dozens of
books but had found nothing to reverse the disease.
"Please, Lord,
this time show me a book that will remove this terrible pain," she
silently prayed. Still clinging to the slightest inkling of a miracle, Lottie
spotted a book store and mused, I've got nothing to lose by going in and
browsing.
While sifting through
the shelves, she spotted an arthritis cookbook by a Chinese doctor, “The
Arthritic's Cookbook” by Dr. Collin H. Dong and Jane Banks. She casually picked
it up and became totally absorbed in it. "As I read it, I found the story
was so similar to mine that I could have written the book myself. Dr. Dong had
gone through the same pain, but he was only thirty years old when it was
happening to him. But at fifty years old I had a little bit more aging under my
belt. Before a clerk noticed me and would probably tease me about reading the
whole book in the store, I had to buy it.
"The book was an
answer to my prayers," Lottie happily declared. "I had eaten healthy
foods but had never stuck to a daily diet without meats and dairy
products."
Lottie was filled with
hope again. '0h, please, Lord, let this work,' I prayed again and again. I
couldn't believe my body. After the first week, 50 percent of the pain was
gone. I was able to sleep and to go up and down steps in my house. I was
bending over to brush my teeth without holding onto my back. I simply knelt
down and thanked the good Lord. After the second week, I lost all the pain. It
was gone! I felt this was a miracle.
"I was convinced
the food I was eating wasn't very good for me, such as the meats and dairy
products. I thought an older person like myself needed
plenty of calcium. So, I had devoured cheeses and milk.
As I increased my
calcium intake, I read about milk being a big problem with arthritics. Then I
began to get my calcium from fresh vegetables like broccoli. I infrequently
take calcium tablets because I do suffer a few cramps in my legs if I'm lacking
the vitamin."
Her incessant quest to
overcome the disease paid off for Lottie. It was time to celebrate and thank
God for being with her. Lottie was enthralled by the book and the diet. "God had answered my prayers. He had
directed me to the book and had provided the support I. needed at that time in my life. I had been
physically at rock bottom. I had been almost completely without energy. I had
been a living body of pain, but that part of my life was history."
Lottie's prayers were
answered, but she was also willing to discipline herself toward overcoming the
arthritis. In other words, Lottie accepted the responsibility for her good
health. She had to cooperate with Divine Providence, and no doctor or counselor
could have done what she did with herself.
Lottie became her own
diet specialist. She even devised a special diet that is suited to her needs.
Unlike “The Arthritic's Cookbook”, she included some fruits and eliminated
others, such as oranges, grapefruit, and lemons. "I had become a health
faddist. I used to laugh at people who were into health foods, but I don't
laugh anymore. I'm living a wonderful life because of what I eat and don't
eat."
But Lottie's success
story wasn't popular with some. One of her doctors gave her a lecture when she
shared the good news with him. "He kept talking about quacks and never
spoke one word about the diet. He thought I was probably 'in remission,' but I
wanted to tell him the doctor who wrote the book had been in remission for
thirty years."
Lottie and her husband
left Boston in 1980 and moved to Hendersonville, Tennessee. She wanted to help others battle their disease.
That is exactly what she has done and is doing. Lottie formed two support
groups.
"I want to show
you something," Lottie told the new members. "You may not believe
this. But I have gone through what many of you are feeling right now."
As she pulls the vials of pills and medication from her pockets, the audience is
glued to her every word. "I used to take all these pills--and more. I used
to wear a cast because my fingers were getting stiff at night, but I don't
anymore."
Then Lottie lays it on the line, driving home the fact that
each- person is responsible for his own health, not a doctor or a hospital.
"I am responsible for my health; you are responsible for yours,"
Lottie veritably preaches to her support groups. "Nobody knows my body as well as I do. If we listen to our bodies very
carefully, they tell us an awful lot. I love sweets and don't think a meal is
complete without a cookie or a dessert. But when I eat a candy bar," she
laughs, "it will go straight to my knees, and I'll hurt--and know it's not
good for me. It's important to listen and pay attention to your body."
Lottie makes sure her
listeners understand that the diet is not a guarantee and will not help every
person who tries it. She shares her experiences and expects her regimen to work
for some of her support group members. She humbly admits, "I can't and
won't say I'm completely cured. I've reversed a serious, painful illness.
Having a positive attitude and having faith and hope I would recover helped
bring about what I believe was a miracle."
Many of her
support-group members have reported considerable progress.
"After only four
sessions," Lottie eagerly reports, "a thirty year old mother of two
has become a different person. The arthritis was so bad she had her arm in a
cast. The rheumatoid arthritis had extended all over her body. A change in diet
and an exercise program has paid dividends. Her brace is off, and she's free of
pain. Her cheeks are even pink again, and she's lost weight."
As we were wrapping up
the interview, Lottie wanted to talk about what she and her husband had in
store for themselves over the weekend. '.'We're going white-water rafting.
We've never done that before," she enthusiastically remarked. "I
couldn't have done that back in Boston. I wouldn't have been able to get into the raft,
let alone hang onto the oar."
One cannot believe
Lottie Fortune will ever have another bout with arthritis--but somehow if she
does, she will remember the years she has lived without its discomfort and
pain. This active, painless period has afforded her a whole new perspective
about what one can do when "the experts" tell him/her to accept
"the inevitable."
Hers is a hard-to-beat
success story. Lottie Fortune indeed possesses resiliency, which Webster
defines as: "the capability of a strained body to recover in size and
shape after deformation caused especially by compressive stress; an ability to
recover from or adjust easily to misfortune or change." That describes
Lottie to a T!
Excerpted from the book
“I Love Life...In Spite of It All” (Broadman and Holman Publishing)
© 1989 Jerry Dahmen. Reprinted by permission of the
author. All rights reserved.
LINK TO LOTTIE FORTUNE'S MODIFIED ARTHRITIS DIET
Jerry Dahmen recently returned to KXRB in Sioux Falls where he is now the News Director. Most recently,
he was the news content and community relations director for Gaylord
Entertainment’s WSN/WTN radio news department in Nashville, TN. Jerry is one of radio broadcasting’s most
honored journalists, having earned dozens of major news/journalism honors,
including three Edward R. Murrow Awards and the
George Foster Peabody Award. Jerry is the author of a nationally published book
titled “I Love Life..In
Spite of It All”, and he has been featured on several national talk shows,
including Oprah. He has also aired the “I Love Life” program on radio for more
than 25 years. Life Challenges’ Alissa Lukara was recently one of the guests.